戴安娜王妃葬礼悼词原文

戴安娜王妃葬礼悼词原文

TributetoDiana致戴安娜这是戴安娜弟弟在戴安娜葬礼上对戴安娜的评价Istandbeforeyoutodaytherepresentativeofafamilyingrief,inacountryinmourningbeforeaworldinshock."WeareallunitednotonlyinourdesiretoplayourrespectstoDianabutratherinourneedtodoso.Forsuchwasherextraordinaryappealthatthetensofmillionsofpeopletakingpartinthisserviceallovertheworldviatelevisionandradiowhoneveractuallymether,feetthattheytoolostsomeoneclosetothemintheearlyhoursofSundaymorning.ItisamoreremarkabletributetoDianathanIcaneverhopetoofferhertoday.Dianawastheveryessenceofcompassion,ofduty,ofstyle,ofbeauty.Allovertheworldshewasasymbolofselflesshumanity.Allovertheworld,astandardbearerfortherightofthetrulydowntrodden,averyBritishgirlwhotranscendnationality.Someonewithanaturalnobilitywhowasclasslessandwhoprovedinthelastyearthatsheneedednoroyaltitletocontinuetogenerateherparticularbrandofmagic.Todayisourchancetosaythankyouforthewayyoubrightenedourlives,eventhoughGodgrantedyoubuthalfalife.Wewillallfeelcheatedalwaysthatyouweretakenfromussoyoungandyetwemustlearntobegratefulthatyoucamealongatall.Onlynowthatyouaregonedowetrulyappreciatewhatwearenowwithoutandwewantyoutoknowthatlifewithoutyouisvery,verydifficult.Wehavealldespairedatourlossoverthepastweekandonlythestrengthofthemessageyougaveusthroughyouryearsofgivinghasaffordedusthestrengthtomoreforward.Thereisatemptationtorushtocanonizeyourmemory,thereisnoneedtodoso.Youstandtallenoughasahumanbeingofuniquequalitiesnottoneedtobeseenasasaint.Indeedtosanctifyyourmemorywouldbetomissoutontheverycoreofyourbeing,yourwonderfullymischievoussenseofhumor,withalaughthatbentyoudouble.Yourjoyforlifetransmittedwhereveryourtookyoursmileandthesparkleinthoseunforgettableeyes.Yourboundlessenergywhichyoucouldbarelycontain.Butyourgreatestgiftwasyouintuitionanditwasagiftyouusedwisely.Thisiswhatunderpinnedallyourotherwonderfulattributesandifwelooktoanalyzewhatitwasaboutyouthathadsuchawideappealwefinditinyourinstinctivefeelforwhatwasreallyimportantinallourlives.WithoutyourGod-givensensitivitywewouldbeimmerseingreaterignoranceatheanguishofAidesandHIVsufferers,theplightofthehomeless,theisolationoflepers,therandomdestructionoflandmines.Dianaexplainedtomeoncethatitwasherinnermostfeelingofsufferingthatmadeitpossibleforhertoconnectwithherconstituencyoftherejected.Andherewecometoanothertruthabouther.Forallthestatus,theglamour,theapplause,Dianaremainedthroughoutaveryinsecurepersonatheart,almostchildlikeinherdesiretodogoodforotherssoshecouldreleaseherselffromdeepfeelingofunworthinessofwhichhereatingdisordersweremerelyasymptom.Theworldsensedthispartofhercharacterandcherishedherforhervulnerabilitywhilstadmiringherforherhonesty.ThelasttimeIsawDianawasonJuly1,herbirthdayinLondon,whentypicallyshewasnottakingtimetocelebrateherspecialdaywithfriendsbutwasguestofhonorataspecialcharityfundraisingevening.Shesparkledofcourse,butIwouldrathercherishthedaysIspentwithherinMarchwhenshecametovisitmeandmychildreninourhomeinSouthAfrica.IamproudofthefactapartfromwhenshewasondisplaymeetingPresidentMandelawemanagedtocontrivetostoptheever-presentpaparazzifromgettingasinglepictureofherthatmeantalottoher.ThereweredaysIwillalwaystreasure.Itwasasifwehadbeentransportedbacktoourchildhoodwhenwespentsuchanenormousamountoftimetogetherthetwoyoungestinthefamily.Fundamentallyshehadnotchangedatallfromthebigsisterwhomotheredmeasababy,foughtwithmeatschoolandenduredthoselongtrainjourneysbetweenourparents'homeswithmeatweekends.Itisatributetoherlevel-headednessandstrengththatdespitethemostbizarre-likelifeimaginableafterherchildhood,sheremainedintact,truetoherself.ThereisnodoubtthatshewaslookingforanewdirectioninherlifeatthisawayfromEngland,mainlybecauseofthetreatmentthatshereceivedatthehandsofthenewspapers.Idon'tthinksheeverunderstoodwhyhergenuinelygoodintentionsweresneeredatbythemedia,whythereappearedtobeapermanentquestontheirbehalftobringherdown.Itisbaffling.Myownandonlyexplanationisthatgenuinegoodnessisthreateningtothoseattheoppositeendofthemoralspectrum.Itisapointtothoseattheoppositeendofthemoralspectrum.ItisapointtorememberthatofalltheironiesaboutDiana,perhapsthegreatestwasthisagirlgiventhenameoftheancientgoddessofhuntingwas,intheend,intheend,themosthuntedpersonofthemodernage.ShewouldwantustodaytopledgeourselvestoprotectingherbelovedboysWilliamandHarryfromasimilarfateandIdothishereDianaonyourbehalf.Wewillnotallowthemtosuffertheanguishthatusedregularlytodriveyoutotearfuldespair.Andbeyondthat,onbehalfofyourmotherandsisters,Ipledgethatwe,yourbloodfamily,willdoallwecantocontinuetheimaginativewayinwhichyouweresteeringthesetwoexceptionalyoungmensothattheirsoulsarenotsimplyimmersedbydutyandtraditionbutcansingopenlyasyouplanned.Wefullyrespecttheheritageintowhichtheyhavebothbeenbornandwillalwaysrespectandencourage,themintheirroyalrolebutwe,likeyou,recognizetheneedforthem,toexperienceasmanydifferentaspectsoflifeaspossibletoarmthemspirituallyandemotionallyfortheyearsahead.Iknowyouwouldhaveexpectednothinglessfromus.WilliamandHarry,weallcareddesperatelyforyoutoday.Weareallchewedupwiththesadnessatthelossofawomanwhowasnotevenourmother.Howgreatyoursufferingis,wecannotevenimagine.IwouldliketoendbythankingGodforthesmallmercieshehasshownusatthisdreadfultime.FortakingDianaathermostbeautifulandradiantandwhenshehadjoyinherprivatelife.AboutallwegibethanksforthelifeofawomanIamsoproudtobeabletocallmysister,theunique,thecomplex,theextraordinaryandirreplaceableDianawhosebeauty,bothinternalandexternal,willneverbeextinguishedfromourminds.注释downtrodden:adj.被践踏的,被蹂躏的,被压制的transcend:vt.超越,胜过canonize:vt.封…死者为圣徒,使加入圣徒之列,褒扬,推崇mischievous:adj.有害的,恶作剧的,淘气的immerse:vt.沉浸,使陷入今天,我作为一个悲恸的家属代表,站在你们面前,站在一个受到震惊的世界面前,站在一个举国哀悼的国度里.我们所有的人都连结在一起,不仅仅是因为我们渴望表达对戴安娜的敬意,而是因为我们需要这样做.由于她的特殊强大的吸引力,全世界几千万人,甚至没有见过她的人,今天都能够通过电视收音机参加这个葬礼,他们都感到本星期天凌晨失去了一个可亲的人.这个事实本身,对戴安娜来说,就是比我今天希望表达的悼词要强烈和深刻得多的殊荣.在全世界,戴安娜是无私和人道的象征,是同情心,责任心,风度和美丽的化身,是维护真正被践踏的权益的旗手,是一个超越国界的真正的英国女孩,是一个带有自然的高贵气质的人,是一个不分阶层的人.在最后一年里,她已经证明,她不需什么皇家头衔也可以继续发挥她那独特的神奇力量.借今天这个机会,我们要向你说声谢谢,虽然上天只给了你一半的生命,但是你的榜样照亮了我们的生活.我们常感到像受骗受欺似的,你那样年轻,就离开了我们,然而我们必须学会感恩,你毕竟来过.今天,只是你走了我们才真正明白我们失去的是什么.我们要你知道,没有你的日子是多么艰难.一个星期以来,我们全家都生活在痛失亲人的绝望中,惟有你多年慷慨留下的信心和力量才让我们有力量继续走下去.现在有股风潮,大家争抢对你的回忆,实在没有必要这样做.作为一个有杰出品质的人,你已经站得很高了,你没有必要被看作圣人.的确,圣化对你的回忆就是忽视你的最本质的东西.无论什么时候,你那奇妙的,带点调皮的,忍俊不禁的诙谐,你那令人难忘的微笑闪烁的眼神,总把生活的欢愉带给别人,你旺盛不竭的精力好象刚刚是你身体所能容纳的.你最大的天赋是天生待人处事的贤淑,这个天赋你运用得那么聪明和恰到好处.你的其它种种的优良品性就是从这个天性衍生出来的.如果我们试着分析你怎么有这样巨大的吸引力,我们就会找到答案,答案就在于你对我们大家生命中真正重要的东西有同情心.如果没有你那天赐的敏感,今天我们对艾滋病病人的痛苦,对无家可归的人的窘境,对被地雷随意杀伤的人的不幸,要冷漠得多.戴安娜有次对我说,她内心深处的��苦使她有可能同那些被社会摈弃的人们往来.这是我们可以看到她身上的另一个事实,不管社会地位多么显赫,多么光彩照人,不管人们怎样颂扬,戴安娜内心始终是一个受损伤和没有安全感的人,她像孩子似的竭力对别人做点好事,以解脱她内心深处的压抑,她的饮食失调也是这种忧郁心情的一个病症.全世界都感受到她性格中的这个部分.人们不仅缅怀她的真诚,更缅怀她的被贬受挫的一面.我最后一次见到戴安娜是今年7月1日在伦敦她的生日晚会上,那是很典型的一天,她没有时间同朋友们一起庆贺自己的这个特别的日子,只是作为贵宾出席了一个为慈善筹款的晚会.那天她是光彩夺目的,但我觉得更珍贵的是今年3月我们在一起的日子,那时她来到南非我的家中,来看我和我的孩子们.我感到骄傲的是,那次她除了同曼德拉总统见面是在公众场合外,我设法不让那些纠缠的记者拍一张照片,她对此感到舒畅.我珍视少时和她在一起的日子,我现在好像又回到了从前,我俩一起生活很多年的日子,我和她是家里最小的两个孩子.她基本上同小时候我心目中的戴安娜一样,一点没有改变.在学校里打架,忍受与我一同度过往返双亲各自家中的漫长的火车旅行.她性情温存,内心坚定.在童年以后,即便身处复杂奇怪的环境,她总保持完整和自己的真实.毫无疑问,她一直在找寻一个新生活方向,她不时说起要离开英国,主要是受不了报纸对她的围攻.我想她始终不明白为什么她的真诚善意会被传媒扭曲嘲弄,为什么周围总有一股永远把她拉倒的代表传媒的势力,这些确实令人难以理解.我自己唯一的解释,就是真正的善与美对那些位于道德光谱另一端的人来说,是一种威胁.但是,在一切有关戴安娜的嘲讽中,也许最大的讽刺是:一个女孩子,她的名字是古代狩猎女神(Diana),自己最后却成为现代社会最受围剿的一个人.她会要我们今天誓言保护她钟爱的孩子威廉和哈里,免遭相同的命运.戴安娜,我在这里代表你起誓,我们决不会让他们遭受与你那种惯于把你逼到绝望落泪的苦难.另外,我代表你母亲和两个姐姐起誓,我们,你的骨肉亲人,将尽一切能力继续走你那极富创意和深具爱心的道路,引导这两个杰出孩子,让他们的心灵不是束缚在职责的传统中,而是能如你所期盼地自由地放声歌唱.我们完全尊重他们出生的传统,我们也常尊重和鼓励他们肩负王室成员的职责.但我们也像你一样,认识到他们需要在尽量多的不同的生活层面上实践,以使他们在精神和情感上得到武装,能够面对未来的挑战.我知道你一定要我们做到这一点.威谦和哈里,我们全家今天竭尽全力地爱护你们,我们大家正被失去亲人的痛苦折磨,我们无法想象你们忍受的创痛是多么的剧烈.最后,我要感谢天主,在这可怕的悲痛的同时,还是给了我们许多的安慰.感谢天主,在戴安娜最美丽,最放光彩的时刻,在她私生活里最快乐的时刻,把她带走了.最重要的,我们要感谢她的一生.她,让我如此骄傲,我可以称她做姐姐,她是最独特的,最优秀的,不能被取代的.她的美丽,不论内心还是外表,在我们心里永不磨灭.

这是戴安娜弟弟在戴安娜葬礼上对戴安娜的评价TributetoDianaIstandbeforeyoutodaytherepresentativeofafamilyingrief,inacountryinmourningbeforeaworldinshock."WeareallunitednotonlyinourdesiretoplayourrespectstoDianabutratherinourneedtodoso.Forsuchwasherextraordinaryappealthatthetensofmillionsofpeopletakingpartinthisserviceallovertheworldviatelevisionandradiowhoneveractuallymether,feetthattheytoolostsomeoneclosetothemintheearlyhoursofSundaymorning.ItisamoreremarkabletributetoDianathanIcaneverhopetoofferhertoday.Dianawastheveryessenceofcompassion,ofduty,ofstyle,ofbeauty.Allovertheworldshewasasymbolofselflesshumanity.Allovertheworld,astandardbearerfortherightofthetrulydowntrodden,averyBritishgirlwhotranscendnationality.Someonewithanaturalnobilitywhowasclasslessandwhoprovedinthelastyearthatsheneedednoroyaltitletocontinuetogenerateherparticularbrandofmagic.Todayisourchancetosaythankyouforthewayyoubrightenedourlives,eventhoughGodgrantedyoubuthalfalife.Wewillallfeelcheatedalwaysthatyouweretakenfromussoyoungandyetwemustlearntobegratefulthatyoucamealongatall.Onlynowthatyouaregonedowetrulyappreciatewhatwearenowwithoutandwewantyoutoknowthatlifewithoutyouisvery,verydifficult.Wehavealldespairedatourlossoverthepastweekandonlythestrengthofthemessageyougaveusthroughyouryearsofgivinghasaffordedusthestrengthtomoreforward.Thereisatemptationtorushtocanonizeyourmemory,thereisnoneedtodoso.Youstandtallenoughasahumanbeingofuniquequalitiesnottoneedtobeseenasasaint.Indeedtosanctifyyourmemorywouldbetomissoutontheverycoreofyourbeing,yourwonderfullymischievoussenseofhumor,withalaughthatbentyoudouble.Yourjoyforlifetransmittedwhereveryourtookyoursmileandthesparkleinthoseunforgettableeyes.Yourboundlessenergywhichyoucouldbarelycontain.Butyourgreatestgiftwasyouintuitionanditwasagiftyouusedwisely.Thisiswhatunderpinnedallyourotherwonderfulattributesandifwelooktoanalyzewhatitwasaboutyouthathadsuchawideappealwefinditinyourinstinctivefeelforwhatwasreallyimportantinallourlives.WithoutyourGod-givensensitivitywewouldbeimmerseingreaterignoranceatheanguishofAidesandHIVsufferers,theplightofthehomeless,theisolationoflepers,therandomdestructionoflandmines.Dianaexplainedtomeoncethatitwasherinnermostfeelingofsufferingthatmadeitpossibleforhertoconnectwithherconstituencyoftherejected.Andherewecometoanothertruthabouther.Forallthestatus,theglamour,theapplause,Dianaremainedthroughoutaveryinsecurepersonatheart,almostchildlikeinherdesiretodogoodforotherssoshecouldreleaseherselffromdeepfeelingofunworthinessofwhichhereatingdisordersweremerelyasymptom.Theworldsensedthispartofhercharacterandcherishedherforhervulnerabilitywhilstadmiringherforherhonesty.ThelasttimeIsawDianawasonJuly1,herbirthdayinLondon,whentypicallyshewasnottakingtimetocelebrateherspecialdaywithfriendsbutwasguestofhonorataspecialcharityfundraisingevening.Shesparkledofcourse,butIwouldrathercherishthedaysIspentwithherinMarchwhenshecametovisitmeandmychildreninourhomeinSouthAfrica.IamproudofthefactapartfromwhenshewasondisplaymeetingPresidentMandelawemanagedtocontrivetostoptheever-presentpaparazzifromgettingasinglepictureofherthatmeantalottoher.ThereweredaysIwillalwaystreasure.Itwasasifwehadbeentransportedbacktoourchildhoodwhenwespentsuchanenormousamountoftimetogetherthetwoyoungestinthefamily.Fundamentallyshehadnotchangedatallfromthebigsisterwhomotheredmeasababy,foughtwithmeatschoolandenduredthoselongtrainjourneysbetweenourparents'homeswithmeatweekends.Itisatributetoherlevel-headednessandstrengththatdespitethemostbizarre-likelifeimaginableafterherchildhood,sheremainedintact,truetoherself.ThereisnodoubtthatshewaslookingforanewdirectioninherlifeatthisawayfromEngland,mainlybecauseofthetreatmentthatshereceivedatthehandsofthenewspapers.Idon'tthinksheeverunderstoodwhyhergenuinelygoodintentionsweresneeredatbythemedia,whythereappearedtobeapermanentquestontheirbehalftobringherdown.Itisbaffling.Myownandonlyexplanationisthatgenuinegoodnessisthreateningtothoseattheoppositeendofthemoralspectrum.Itisapointtothoseattheoppositeendofthemoralspectrum.ItisapointtorememberthatofalltheironiesaboutDiana,perhapsthegreatestwasthisagirlgiventhenameoftheancientgoddessofhuntingwas,intheend,intheend,themosthuntedpersonofthemodernage.ShewouldwantustodaytopledgeourselvestoprotectingherbelovedboysWilliamandHarryfromasimilarfateandIdothishereDianaonyourbehalf.Wewillnotallowthemtosuffertheanguishthatusedregularlytodriveyoutotearfuldespair.Andbeyondthat,onbehalfofyourmotherandsisters,Ipledgethatwe,yourbloodfamily,willdoallwecantocontinuetheimaginativewayinwhichyouweresteeringthesetwoexceptionalyoungmensothattheirsoulsarenotsimplyimmersedbydutyandtraditionbutcansingopenlyasyouplanned.Wefullyrespecttheheritageintowhichtheyhavebothbeenbornandwillalwaysrespectandencourage,themintheirroyalrolebutwe,likeyou,recognizetheneedforthem,toexperienceasmanydifferentaspectsoflifeaspossibletoarmthemspirituallyandemotionallyfortheyearsahead.Iknowyouwouldhaveexpectednothinglessfromus.WilliamandHarry,weallcareddesperatelyforyoutoday.Weareallchewedupwiththesadnessatthelossofawomanwhowasnotevenourmother.Howgreatyoursufferingis,wecannotevenimagine.IwouldliketoendbythankingGodforthesmallmercieshehasshownusatthisdreadfultime.FortakingDianaathermostbeautifulandradiantandwhenshehadjoyinherprivatelife.AboutallwegibethanksforthelifeofawomanIamsoproudtobeabletocallmysister,theunique,thecomplex,theextraordinaryandirreplaceableDianawhosebeauty,bothinternalandexternal,willneverbeextinguishedfromourminds.

TributetoDiana致戴安娜这是戴安娜弟弟在戴安娜葬礼上对戴安娜的评价Istandbeforeyoutodaytherepresentativeofafamilyingrief,inacountryinmourningbeforeaworldinshock."WeareallunitednotonlyinourdesiretoplayourrespectstoDianabutratherinourneedtodoso.Forsuchwasherextraordinaryappealthatthetensofmillionsofpeopletakingpartinthisserviceallovertheworldviatelevisionandradiowhoneveractuallymether,feetthattheytoolostsomeoneclosetothemintheearlyhoursofSundaymorning.ItisamoreremarkabletributetoDianathanIcaneverhopetoofferhertoday.Dianawastheveryessenceofcompassion,ofduty,ofstyle,ofbeauty.Allovertheworldshewasasymbolofselflesshumanity.Allovertheworld,astandardbearerfortherightofthetrulydowntrodden,averyBritishgirlwhotranscendnationality.Someonewithanaturalnobilitywhowasclasslessandwhoprovedinthelastyearthatsheneedednoroyaltitletocontinuetogenerateherparticularbrandofmagic.Todayisourchancetosaythankyouforthewayyoubrightenedourlives,eventhoughGodgrantedyoubuthalfalife.Wewillallfeelcheatedalwaysthatyouweretakenfromussoyoungandyetwemustlearntobegratefulthatyoucamealongatall.Onlynowthatyouaregonedowetrulyappreciatewhatwearenowwithoutandwewantyoutoknowthatlifewithoutyouisvery,verydifficult.Wehavealldespairedatourlossoverthepastweekandonlythestrengthofthemessageyougaveusthroughyouryearsofgivinghasaffordedusthestrengthtomoreforward.Thereisatemptationtorushtocanonizeyourmemory,thereisnoneedtodoso.Youstandtallenoughasahumanbeingofuniquequalitiesnottoneedtobeseenasasaint.Indeedtosanctifyyourmemorywouldbetomissoutontheverycoreofyourbeing,yourwonderfullymischievoussenseofhumor,withalaughthatbentyoudouble.Yourjoyforlifetransmittedwhereveryourtookyoursmileandthesparkleinthoseunforgettableeyes.Yourboundlessenergywhichyoucouldbarelycontain.Butyourgreatestgiftwasyouintuitionanditwasagiftyouusedwisely.Thisiswhatunderpinnedallyourotherwonderfulattributesandifwelooktoanalyzewhatitwasaboutyouthathadsuchawideappealwefinditinyourinstinctivefeelforwhatwasreallyimportantinallourlives.WithoutyourGod-givensensitivitywewouldbeimmerseingreaterignoranceatheanguishofAidesandHIVsufferers,theplightofthehomeless,theisolationoflepers,therandomdestructionoflandmines.Dianaexplainedtomeoncethatitwasherinnermostfeelingofsufferingthatmadeitpossibleforhertoconnectwithherconstituencyoftherejected.Andherewecometoanothertruthabouther.Forallthestatus,theglamour,theapplause,Dianaremainedthroughoutaveryinsecurepersonatheart,almostchildlikeinherdesiretodogoodforotherssoshecouldreleaseherselffromdeepfeelingofunworthinessofwhichhereatingdisordersweremerelyasymptom.Theworldsensedthispartofhercharacterandcherishedherforhervulnerabilitywhilstadmiringherforherhonesty.ThelasttimeIsawDianawasonJuly1,herbirthdayinLondon,whentypicallyshewasnottakingtimetocelebrateherspecialdaywithfriendsbutwasguestofhonorataspecialcharityfundraisingevening.Shesparkledofcourse,butIwouldrathercherishthedaysIspentwithherinMarchwhenshecametovisitmeandmychildreninourhomeinSouthAfrica.IamproudofthefactapartfromwhenshewasondisplaymeetingPresidentMandelawemanagedtocontrivetostoptheever-presentpaparazzifromgettingasinglepictureofherthatmeantalottoher.ThereweredaysIwillalwaystreasure.Itwasasifwehadbeentransportedbacktoourchildhoodwhenwespentsuchanenormousamountoftimetogetherthetwoyoungestinthefamily.Fundamentallyshehadnotchangedatallfromthebigsisterwhomotheredmeasababy,foughtwithmeatschoolandenduredthoselongtrainjourneysbetweenourparents'homeswithmeatweekends.Itisatributetoherlevel-headednessandstrengththatdespitethemostbizarre-likelifeimaginableafterherchildhood,sheremainedintact,truetoherself.ThereisnodoubtthatshewaslookingforanewdirectioninherlifeatthisawayfromEngland,mainlybecauseofthetreatmentthatshereceivedatthehandsofthenewspapers.Idon'tthinksheeverunderstoodwhyhergenuinelygoodintentionsweresneeredatbythemedia,whythereappearedtobeapermanentquestontheirbehalftobringherdown.Itisbaffling.Myownandonlyexplanationisthatgenuinegoodnessisthreateningtothoseattheoppositeendofthemoralspectrum.Itisapointtothoseattheoppositeendofthemoralspectrum.ItisapointtorememberthatofalltheironiesaboutDiana,perhapsthegreatestwasthisagirlgiventhenameoftheancientgoddessofhuntingwas,intheend,intheend,themosthuntedpersonofthemodernage.ShewouldwantustodaytopledgeourselvestoprotectingherbelovedboysWilliamandHarryfromasimilarfateandIdothishereDianaonyourbehalf.Wewillnotallowthemtosuffertheanguishthatusedregularlytodriveyoutotearfuldespair.Andbeyondthat,onbehalfofyourmotherandsisters,Ipledgethatwe,yourbloodfamily,willdoallwecantocontinuetheimaginativewayinwhichyouweresteeringthesetwoexceptionalyoungmensothattheirsoulsarenotsimplyimmersedbydutyandtraditionbutcansingopenlyasyouplanned.Wefullyrespecttheheritageintowhichtheyhavebothbeenbornandwillalwaysrespectandencourage,themintheirroyalrolebutwe,likeyou,recognizetheneedforthem,toexperienceasmanydifferentaspectsoflifeaspossibletoarmthemspirituallyandemotionallyfortheyearsahead.Iknowyouwouldhaveexpectednothinglessfromus.WilliamandHarry,weallcareddesperatelyforyoutoday.Weareallchewedupwiththesadnessatthelossofawomanwhowasnotevenourmother.Howgreatyoursufferingis,wecannotevenimagine.IwouldliketoendbythankingGodforthesmallmercieshehasshownusatthisdreadfultime.FortakingDianaathermostbeautifulandradiantandwhenshehadjoyinherprivatelife.AboutallwegibethanksforthelifeofawomanIamsoproudtobeabletocallmysister,theunique,thecomplex,theextraordinaryandirreplaceableDianawhosebeauty,bothinternalandexternal,willneverbeextinguishedfromourminds.注释downtrodden:adj.被践踏的,被蹂躏的,被压制的transcend:vt.超越,胜过canonize:vt.封…死者为圣徒,使加入圣徒之列,褒扬,推崇mischievous:adj.有害的,恶作剧的,淘气的immerse:vt.沉浸,使陷入今天,我作为一个悲恸的家属代表,站在你们面前,站在一个受到震惊的世界面前,站在一个举国哀悼的国度里.我们所有的人都连结在一起,不仅仅是因为我们渴望表达对戴安娜的敬意,而是因为我们需要这样做.由于她的特殊强大的吸引力,全世界几千万人,甚至没有见过她的人,今天都能够通过电视收音机参加这个葬礼,他们都感到本星期天凌晨失去了一个可亲的人.这个事实本身,对戴安娜来说,就是比我今天希望表达的悼词要强烈和深刻得多的殊荣.在全世界,戴安娜是无私和人道的象征,是同情心,责任心,风度和美丽的化身,是维护真正被践踏的权益的旗手,是一个超越国界的真正的英国女孩,是一个带有自然的高贵气质的人,是一个不分阶层的人.在最后一年里,她已经证明,她不需什么皇家头衔也可以继续发挥她那独特的神奇力量.借今天这个机会,我们要向你说声谢谢,虽然上天只给了你一半的生命,但是你的榜样照亮了我们的生活.我们常感到像受骗受欺似的,你那样年轻,就离开了我们,然而我们必须学会感恩,你毕竟来过.今天,只是你走了我们才真正明白我们失去的是什么.我们要你知道,没有你的日子是多么艰难.一个星期以来,我们全家都生活在痛失亲人的绝望中,惟有你多年慷慨留下的信心和力量才让我们有力量继续走下去.现在有股风潮,大家争抢对你的回忆,实在没有必要这样做.作为一个有杰出品质的人,你已经站得很高了,你没有必要被看作圣人.的确,圣化对你的回忆就是忽视你的最本质的东西.无论什么时候,你那奇妙的,带点调皮的,忍俊不禁的诙谐,你那令人难忘的微笑闪烁的眼神,总把生活的欢愉带给别人,你旺盛不竭的精力好象刚刚是你身体所能容纳的.你最大的天赋是天生待人处事的贤淑,这个天赋你运用得那么聪明和恰到好处.你的其它种种的优良品性就是从这个天性衍生出来的.如果我们试着分析你怎么有这样巨大的吸引力,我们就会找到答案,答案就在于你对我们大家生命中真正重要的东西有同情心.如果没有你那天赐的敏感,今天我们对艾滋病病人的痛苦,对无家可归的人的窘境,对被地雷随意杀伤的人的不幸,要冷漠得多.戴安娜有次对我说,她内心深处的��苦使她有可能同那些被社会摈弃的人们往来.这是我们可以看到她身上的另一个事实,不管社会地位多么显赫,多么光彩照人,不管人们怎样颂扬,戴安娜内心始终是一个受损伤和没有安全感的人,她像孩子似的竭力对别人做点好事,以解脱她内心深处的压抑,她的饮食失调也是这种忧郁心情的一个病症.全世界都感受到她性格中的这个部分.人们不仅缅怀她的真诚,更缅怀她的被贬受挫的一面.我最后一次见到戴安娜是今年7月1日在伦敦她的生日晚会上,那是很典型的一天,她没有时间同朋友们一起庆贺自己的这个特别的日子,只是作为贵宾出席了一个为慈善筹款的晚会.那天她是光彩夺目的,但我觉得更珍贵的是今年3月我们在一起的日子,那时她来到南非我的家中,来看我和我的孩子们.我感到骄傲的是,那次她除了同曼德拉总统见面是在公众场合外,我设法不让那些纠缠的记者拍一张照片,她对此感到舒畅.我珍视少时和她在一起的日子,我现在好像又回到了从前,我俩一起生活很多年的日子,我和她是家里最小的两个孩子.她基本上同小时候我心目中的戴安娜一样,一点没有改变.在学校里打架,忍受与我一同度过往返双亲各自家中的漫长的火车旅行.她性情温存,内心坚定.在童年以后,即便身处复杂奇怪的环境,她总保持完整和自己的真实.毫无疑问,她一直在找寻一个新生活方向,她不时说起要离开英国,主要是受不了报纸对她的围攻.我想她始终不明白为什么她的真诚善意会被传媒扭曲嘲弄,为什么周围总有一股永远把她拉倒的代表传媒的势力,这些确实令人难以理解.我自己唯一的解释,就是真正的善与美对那些位于道德光谱另一端的人来说,是一种威胁.但是,在一切有关戴安娜的嘲讽中,也许最大的讽刺是:一个女孩子,她的名字是古代狩猎女神(Diana),自己最后却成为现代社会最受围剿的一个人.她会要我们今天誓言保护她钟爱的孩子威廉和哈里,免遭相同的命运.戴安娜,我在这里代表你起誓,我们决不会让他们遭受与你那种惯于把你逼到绝望落泪的苦难.另外,我代表你母亲和两个姐姐起誓,我们,你的骨肉亲人,将尽一切能力继续走你那极富创意和深具爱心的道路,引导这两个杰出孩子,让他们的心灵不是束缚在职责的传统中,而是能如你所期盼地自由地放声歌唱.我们完全尊重他们出生的传统,我们也常尊重和鼓励他们肩负王室成员的职责.但我们也像你一样,认识到他们需要在尽量多的不同的生活层面上实践,以使他们在精神和情感上得到武装,能够面对未来的挑战.我知道你一定要我们做到这一点.威谦和哈里,我们全家今天竭尽全力地爱护你们,我们大家正被失去亲人的痛苦折磨,我们无法想象你们忍受的创痛是多么的剧烈.最后,我要感谢天主,在这可怕的悲痛的同时,还是给了我们许多的安慰.感谢天主,在戴安娜最美丽,最放光彩的时刻,在她私生活里最快乐的时刻,把她带走了.最重要的,我们要感谢她的一生.她,让我如此骄傲,我可以称她做姐姐,她是最独特的,最优秀的,不能被取代的.她的美丽,不论内心还是外表,在我们心里永不磨灭.

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